The trend for extravagant, expensive weddings is still strong, with the average American couple spending about $27,000 for expenses, according to a study published in 2006 by the Conde Nast Bridal group. (Source: money.cnn.com) Thankfully, lavish weddings are not a requirement for an unforgettably romantic wedding day. However, even small, simple weddings require tending to important details Some wedding details, such as having attendants, or even guests, are optional, and will determine how complicated-or expensive-your wedding will be. Other details are necessary. The following five details are what you absolutely must tend to before getting married.
A License
You must get a marriage license in the county (or foreign country) where the marriage will take place. The county clerk will be able to tell you how much a license costs, how many days you will have to wait to get the license after you apply, and whether you need blood tests Each state has different requirements In most cases the license will be valid for at least a month, so you can get the license early, and tick one more thing off of your wedding to-do list. The clerk can also tell you what forms of identification you will have to provide, and whether both parties have to be present to apply. You will need to take the license back to the county clerk’s office after the ceremony so it can be filed.
If you do get married in a foreign country, the license will be valid everywhere else, provided you can legally be married to one another. If you have a question about restrictive marital laws, such as age limits, ask the county clerk where your wedding will be held. There are a few states with lax laws concerning the marriage license. Nevada and Arkansas will issue a marriage license with no waiting period or blood tests.
A Time
Choosing the perfect date for your wedding is not always easy, even for a no-frills wedding. There is vacation time from work to consider, and the availability of the guests you choose to invite. The time of year will determine the availability of wedding venues, photographers, and other vendors. Summer is the most popular time for weddings, so be prepared to spend more money if you marry in June, July or August. Since summer is high tourist season in most areas of the world, budget additional funds for your honeymoon during those months as well.
A simple wedding is possible to plan in a few weeks, but, if possible, give yourself more time. If you only have a month and you want a popular wedding venue, consider getting married on a day slightly less traditional, such as a weekday, when chances are better for open dates
A Place
Choosing the venue is one of the most important details of your wedding, since it will set the stage and tone of the day. Couples have become very creative in recent years with wedding venues. With a few details tweaked, a bride and groom can be married underwater, or even mid-air. Others marry in the place where they will then honeymoon, often termed a destination wedding. Holding a small, informal affair will offer many more choices, such as a friend’s downtown penthouse apartment, or the bam on your grandparents farm.
Different venues will offer a unique set of details to work out. If you marry outdoors, you need a plan for inclement weather and seating for guests. A wedding on a small cruise boat might cause some guests to feel seasick. Some venues, such as national parks or historical sites, require a permit. If you want to get married in the middle of the forest, make sure all invited guests are prepared for the hike in to the site.
An Officiant
Couples can choose a justice of the peace or a member of the clergy. In some states, such as Florida, even a notary public can officiate. A county clerk can provide a list of eligible officiants. Contact the officiant early in the planning process to discuss details. If you belong to a church, your pastor, priest or rabbi may perform the ceremony free of charge. Otherwise, plan on paying the officiant a fee, usually not more than $100.
Wedding Attire
Simple wed dings allow more flexibility in choosing wedding clothing. The bride does not have to wear the traditional white full-length gown. A less formal dress can be transformed into bridal attire with accessories, a headpiece, and flowers A tailored suit and skirt with pumps, pearls, and a small hat with a short veil over the eyes looks classy. A filmy sun dress with dainty jewelry and a ring of daisies and ribbons for the hair is the perfect retro 70s bridal outfit. Though white is not required, choosing light to medium colors will look decidedly more bridal.